How Are You Doing?

My loves, how are you doing? I wanted to take a moment to check in. The headlines have been horrifying; I know the schoolgirls in Iran are on everyone’s minds, along with so much other news. “I’m hassling my representatives and working in my community — I still believe those are the treatments for feelings of powerlessness — but I’m really f*cking heartsick,” commented long-time reader Lauren O.

When Freddie and I broke up in December, a reader named Erin kindly wrote, “Jo, you have this big, beautiful community of women — what if you imagine each of us holding a little teaspoon of your sadness, so you don’t have to hold all of it yourself?” The image felt so comforting, and now I’d love to return the favor. My friend Lina sometimes says, “Give me your stress,” while holding out her hands. So, if you’d like, hand me your stress. I will gladly hold it for you today.

Here are five questions, if you’re in the mood:
Something you’re looking forward to:
A worry that’s on your mind:
Your favorite dessert:
Your hometown (or a place that feels like home):
Something you like about yourself, large or small:

And if you need a moment of levity, this dog photo made laugh; and pro tips from readers are really fun to read.

Finally, I wanted to say how grateful I am that you’re here. I love this community of smart, funny, wonderful people. We’ll get through this together. Hope to see you at the next No Kings March on March 28th; and to keep on keeping on, don’t underestimate the power of a cup of tea and a biscuit. Sending so much love your way, as always. xoxo

P.S. A bunch of fun house tours, and 10 of the funniest reader comments.